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Wednesday, September 02, 2020

Six Points and Eight Suggestions for an Egalitarian Advancement Methodology



            I’m a Christian Biblical egalitarian. That means, in part, that I believe and support the position that, according to the bible, women are equal to men in virtually all aspects of life including the home and the Church. I believe that women can teach men biblical doctrine and hold the church positions of pastor and senior pastor.

            I wasn’t always an egalitarian. Up until 2002 I was a biblical complementarian. A complementarian is a Christian who generally believes that a man is the authority in the home (the woman is subordinate) and only a man can be a pastor. In 2002 I enrolled in a complementarian Southern Baptist seminary. I took biblical interpretation (hermeneutics) classes from complementarian professors. However, when I applied their immensely invaluable methods for interpreting the bible I was immediately and thoroughly convinced that the bible both allowed and encouraged women in an equal role with men.

            There are many issues of social injustice for which the Christian can engage racism, poverty, war, healthcare, etc.). Through prayer (an interest) everyone pursues a topic or two on which to focus. There are three reasons for why I am a vocal and continuous advocate for egalitarianism:

  •  It’s the biblical truth.
  • We Church hinders its mission when it only uses 50% of its pastoral leadership pool.
  • Patriarchy is one of the most ancient forms of social injustices. [I’m currently writing an article about how the ancient Israelites conceptualized the rise of social injustice, particularly in Genesis 1-11, 19 and Judges 19.]

            Those last two reasons are significant. The Christian Faith has an endgame, a goal. It’s referenced many times in the bible, but most clearly in 1 Corinthians 15, Romans 8, Revelation 21-22, Psalm 110, and Daniel 7. It is when the world will be completely redeemed, and all oppression eliminated. One significant aspect of the Christian Faith is participating in Christ’s reform or elimination of these oppressive institutions. Patriarchy is one of these oppressive institutions.

So, I would like to offer some points, suggestions, and general guidance on what I believe is the best method to achieve the egalitarian goal. The suggestions are based on the points, and both suggestions and points derive from demographic research, Scriptural teachings on the gospel and the accompanying gospel methodology. This method is about playing the long game by the direction of the Spirit and within the movement of the culture, by both speaking and living the truth in love. It isn’t about bullying, excluding, mocking, or using “politics” to achieve quick but temporary goals. Rather, it is about a patient, incremental, and Spirit-led process of more permanent transformation and redemption.

 



Point One: The Holy Spirit has been moving the Church towards greater egalitarianism and will continue to do so. God will accomplish this because God wants to accomplish this.

Point Two: The movement of the culture is in the egalitarianism’s favor. (See the demographic pics on this post.) Most people WANT egalitarianism to be true. These factors (especially from the previous point) give egalitarians and overwhelming advantage.

Point Three: We won’t convince hard complementarians. Even if the egalitarian reading of Scripture is recognized by everyone, hard complementarians will always find an excuse. Example: many hard complementarians were willing to change 2,000 years of Trinitarian doctrine [i.e., Eternal Subordination of the Son] in order to establish the validity complementarianism, and even those hard complementarians who disagreed with them considered altering the Trinity an “agree-to-disagree” issue. The latter group is far more a concern than the former. It means that hard complementarians think that permitting a woman to proclaim the gospel is a far bigger problem than altering the doctrine of the Trinity.

Point Four: Most soft complementarians will be content with egalitarianism even if they disagree (again see polling pics). They’ll shrug their shoulders, agree-to-disagree and live with the inevitable result regardless of the outcome.

Point Five: Complementarians stake their position on this subject based on their interpretation of the bible. In the Southern Baptist Convention, biblical inerrancy is a badge of Christian fidelity. But complementarianism is the most important badge of biblical inerrancy. For someone to state that a biblical inerrantist can be an egalitarian (particularly if that someone is a noted leader like Beth Moore) is like telling a stereotypical 1st century Pharisee, “One doesn’t need to be circumcised to be a faithful. In fact, one doesn’t need to be a Jew in order to be recognized as part of the children of God.”

Point Six: Have you noticed that many hard complementarians come-off as mean-spirited and unappealing? They often display language, humor, and attitudes which are demeaning, misogynistic, and turn-off both soft complementarians and the undecided.

Suggestion One: Focus on the goal. Don’t make egalitarianism an end in of itself. Stress that egalitarianism is a means to proclaim the gospel, make disciples, and make the Kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven. This is completely true, it looks great to the unconvinced, and it helps to emphasize this to both complementarians and egalitarians.

Suggestion Two: In general, don’t argue with hard complementarians unless 1) there are others watching the debate who would be easier to convince, or 2) you want to test the strength of an egalitarian argument against real “opposition”.

Suggestion Three: Focus mainly on those just beginning to form opinions and positions on egalitarianism & complementarianism. If the hard complementarians won’t be convinced, and the soft complementarians won’t care, then the struggle should be with the undecided future. People become complementarians because they are born into a system and worldview which tells them that complementarianism is the correct way the world should work. As biblical egalitarians, we supposed to be a part of God’s plan in Christ to right the world. We want to create a worldview in which people are born into this world in which every child grows up assuming women and men are equal in home, church, and world (Prov 22:6).

Suggestion Four: Don’t try to win the argument; try to win the person. This is exactly what Jesus did when he spoke with the woman at the well (John 4). When he mentions something that makes her uncomfortable (v. 17-19), she brings up a divisive theological-political issue (v. 20), possibly as a distraction to change the subject (see Acts 23:6-10). Jesus doesn't take the bait. His response is to go much deeper into the problem than in the surface, contentious matters, but still making the matter personal for the woman (v. 21).

Suggestion Five: Make your arguments appealing and palatable to others. Figure out who your audience is and then decide how best to frame and communicate the truth in a way that would be more accepting to the person or people. Choose appropriate and appealing terminology. All faith traditions, races, nations, cultures, and wings of the Church favor ideas, terms, emphases, and doctrines that others may not. Figure out what those are for a given fellow believer or group, figure out how egalitarianism relates and supports it, and then make your appeal that way.

Suggestion Six: Be biblical in your arguments. Most people do not arrive at religious conclusions based on careful, logical examinations of the various arguments, biblical or otherwise. However, logical arguments (particularly from the bible) help secure people in their convictions. Therefore, stress the importance of Scripture and the biblical basis for egalitarianism. As noted above, a position of biblical fidelity and egalitarianism undercuts the arguments and preconceived attitudes of the hard complementarians who are also trying to convince the undecided. I’d add that most complementarians (even the hard kind) don’t have a great biblical basis for their position because their faith traditions have excluded all those who could offer a proper egalitarian defense. With some familiarity of the subject, it’s fairly easy to mop the floor with a complementarian with biblical arguments. But, again, hard complementarians won’t change, so humiliating them won’t advance the gospel. We want to love them but be strategic in how we approach them on this subject.

Suggestion Seven: Be loving, merciful, and patient with complementarians. Let complementarians know that you want to work with them for ministry and mission. If we want complementarians to be inclusive of us, then we need to be inclusive of us. Both soft complementarians and the undecided will note our good attitudes and appreciate it. We want soft complementarians and the undecided to look at egalitarians and think, “Wow! Those egalitarians love the Lord, preach the gospel, and love even with whom they disagree. I like having them around.” Soft complementarian tolerance of egalitarians and their position is 75% of the victory. Time will insure the remaining 25%.

Suggestion Eight: Pray. We need to find out what God wants us to do as individuals and as a group to achieve victory. And then we do it! Pray before you jump into an argument. Pray for mercy and patience when amongst or talking to hard complementarians. Pray for the best way to communicate to an undecided.


Monday, May 25, 2015

An Excellent Woman (Proverbs 31)




For those more traditional Christians who believe it is unwise for a woman/wife to work outside of the home, here are few verses from Proverbs 31 giving qualities of an excellent or virtuous woman:

“She is like merchant ships; She brings her food from afar.” (v. 14)

“She considers a field and buys it; From her earnings she plants a vineyard.” (v. 16)

“She makes linen garments and sells them, And supplies belts to the tradesmen.” (v. 24)

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Brief Info on Elders/Pastors/Bishops




This week I sent a woman a research paper I wrote a decade ago about the various Scriptural basis for women’s complete engagement in the church. In doing so, I was reminded about the function of pastors in a church.

In the Bible, the terms “elder”, “pastor”, and “bishop” are used interchangeably referring to the same function of use in the church (Acts 20:17,28-30; Titus 1:5-9; 1 Peter 5:1-3). The qualifications and work are identical. The purpose of an elder/pastor/bishop is to teach and mentor younger believers in the faith (1 Tim 3:2; 4:13; 5:17; 2 Tim 3:13-17; 4:2; Titus 1:7, 9; 1 Peter 5:1-2) so that the latter can become fully functioning members of the Kingdom of God. In this way, every mature believer teaching sound doctrine can be an elder/pastor/bishop to a younger (less mature) believer. In this way, every Sunday School teacher (teaching children all the way to adults) is a an elder/pastor/bishop.

Here is a bit of controversy: elders/pastors/bishops have no authority over other believers (Matthew 20:25-26; 1 Timothy 2:12; 1 Peter 5:2-3). When in seminary, I used to receive howls of protests from future pastors when I would make the argument that pastors are not supposed to have authority over other believers. I would point to the above Scriptures and several others to no avail. Usually, I would ask them “what authority do elders/pastors/bishops then have?”

Going back to my research paper, I noted that women can be elders/pastors/overseers (1 Timonthy 5:2; Titus 2:3), deacons (Romans 16:1; 1 Timothy 3:11), prophets (Exodus 15:20; Judges 4:4; 2 Kings 22:14; Isaiah 8:3; Luke 2:36), and apostles (Romans 16:7).

Specifically, with regards to being an elder/pastor/bishop, elder women have the same responsibility and purpose as their male counterparts: to mentor young believers in the faith (Titus 2:3-5).

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Jesus' Favourite Books and Music

Do you know what Jesus’ favorite books of the Bible were? If we base our assumptions on the Gospel accounts, Jesus frequently quoted Deuteronomy, Isaiah, Daniel and Psalms - particularly the Psalms!

He and the disciples sang a few psalms before leaving the Last Supper (Matt 26:30; Mark 14:26) to go to the Gethsemane gardens. Even when he was receiving the standard Roman welcome on Golgotha, he was thinking of a psalm (Matt 27:46; Matt 15:34; cf. Psalm 22:1).

Yes, Jesus liked music. Probably due to the influence of Mary - she wrote psalms!Luke 1:46-55. She was just forbidden to explain them!

"Deacons" for "Elders", "Ministers" for "Elderess"

It is a well-known fact that many Southerns Baptist churches have a leadership structure in which “deacons” effectively perform the function of “elders”. Such churches do not recognize "elders" as such and do not use the term in any sense. This interchangeability of terms rarely causes a problem in churches. Neither English term is actually found in the New Testament Greek Bible.

Of course, the New Testament Greek terms for “pastor” (poimen), “overseer” (episkopos), and “elder” (presbyteros) are virtually synonymous (Acts 20:17, 28). The term “elder” (presbyteros) (Acts 20:17; 1 Tim 5:17-18; Tit 1:5; Jas 5:14; 1 Pet 5:1-4) can refer either to chronological age or to a specific ministry within the Church.

The title itself suggests spiritual oversight, for elders fulfilled certain ministries such as anointing the sick (Jas 5:14) as well as preaching, teaching, admonishing and guarding against heresy (Tit 1:9). Therefore, an “elder” is a believer whose has the Christian maturity (the fruit) to mentor another Christian. Women are called to this function (1 Tim 5:2) just as men are (1 Tim 5:2).

In 1 Timothy 5, Paul refers to both “elder” (presbytero) and “elderess” (presbyteras). In Titus 2, Paul uses a slightly different word for “elder” (presbytas) and “elderess” (presbytidas). Both are adjectival forms of the terms of 1 Timothy 5. In the context of the Pastoral Epistles and with regard to the similarity between the requirements of both in the 1 Timothy 5 and Titus 2 chapters, it appears obvious that Paul is speaking of the same function. This conforms to the Biblical support for female prophets (Ex 15:20, 21; Jud 4:4, 5; 2 Kin 22:12-20; Is. 8:1-3; Joel 2:28; Lk 2:36; Ac 21:9; I Cor 11) and female apostles (Roman 16:7).

Nevertheless, I believe that individuals are called by God and that ordination is the church’s recognition of what the Holy Spirit has already done in the life and ministry of an individual believer. The Church does not always accurately discern the Holy Spirit in this matter and, thus, some Christians are ordained who have not been called and others who have been called have not been ordained. I do not believe that a church’s error in such a case invalidates the call. An individual can still perform the function of a deacon and pastor whether or not they are formally recognized as such.

Therefore, since almost every Southern Baptist church not only permits but encourages spiritually mature women to be involved in evangelizing, encouraging, discipling, worshipping, serving, admonishing, praying, and setting a faithful witness to what God has done in their lives through Christ, I am quite content to let the Holy Spirit work out this issue in his own time. Within the local church, I prefer to remain silent on the contentious subject.

Apparently, many Southern Baptist churches have adopted the same approach. Instead, of a woman serving as "Administrative Pastor" or "Children's Pastor", we have women serving as "Minister of Administration" or "Children's Minister" and, one that I recently noticed, "Director of Administration" and "Director of Children's Ministry".

Think about it: Minister, Director, Manager, Executive, Administrator, Supervisor, Advisor, Principal, Superintendent, Officer, Controller ...

Just so long as a church doesn't use a term found in an English Bible Southern Baptists will not be able to exclude them for having a female functioning as a "pastor".

This is how we know the egalitarians are going to win!

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Head Coverings During Prayer: Applying 1 Corinthian 11:4 at Graduation

During my graduation rehearsal, we were told that during prayers the men must take off their hats while women were to keep their hats on. [pardon the preposition]

I myself think that such a by-gone tradition and unscriptural sexist discrimination is foolish. I considered keeping my own hat on in solidarity with the female ministers in my class. However, after quick consideration, I decided to honor these two “traditions” out of due respect of my position as a guest at this church (Travis Avenue Baptist).

Oddly enough, a lovely Korean lady sitting near me asked me why she and other women must keep their hats on while the men were required to take their hats off during prayers. I explained to her that this practice is due to the traditional misinterpretation of 1 Corinthians 11.

“Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head. But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.” (1 Corinthian 11:4f.)

Incidentally, 1 Corinthians is probably the most ironically misinterpreted book of the NT. I say “ironically” because there are several passages in this book so misinterpreted by evangelicals that they end up practicing these teachings in the very manner against which Paul teaches (i.e., “speaking in tongues”, women and authority, Christian liberty, communion and divisions, etc.) How odd.

But her question struck a thought.

“Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head.” (1 Corinthian 11:4)

“Having his head covered?” Are we to take this commandment by God thru Paul literally? If that be the case, then shouldn’t men take off their toupees and hairpieces when praying at church? That’s what the Bible says, right?

Of course, we take the English word “covered” to refer to “hats” of some sort and not simply “covering”.

But if toupees and hairpieces were referred to as “hair hats” (ala the Seinfeld episode titled “The Beard”) would we then deem toupees to be hats and thus a covering which 1 Corinthians prohibits?

I do not know. I suspect it depends upon who in power among those who decide how we are to interpret Scripture has a toupee or not.

Monday, April 23, 2007

Egalitarianism, Evolution and Abortion

One of the current interpretations of 1 Timothy 2:12 is that women are not allowed to teach men theology. Allow me to refute this interpretation as false and risk the certain possibility that I will drive non-egalitarians further into the corners of stubborn conformity.

“And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.” (1 Timothy 2:12)

This is the sole passage on which non-egalitarianism hangs. If it was not for this passage, women could be “pastors”. Still, one sentence from God is enough for the Christian, correct?

Of course, since this verse does not say “women cannot be pastors” and doesn’t even mention the word “pastor” or any other title of the church office, the non-egalitarian is forced to take it as general principle which includes the office of “pastor” among other church positions.

Of course, this general principle must include the prohibition of women teaching (didasko) men. But what do we mean by “teach”? This is a very important point!

Is it wrong for a woman to teach a man how to use a calculator?

Is it wrong for a woman to teach a man how to use a computer?

Is it wrong for a woman to teach a man how to use a Bible?

Is it wrong for a woman to teach a man French?

Apparently, it is wrong for a woman to teach a man Hebrew! Why? Apparently, teaching Hebrew is wrong because it involves theology.

“So-and-so” was quoted in a Jan. 19 Dallas Morning News article that the seminary has returned to its “traditional, confessional and biblical position” that a woman should not instruct men in theology courses or in biblical languages.

Biblical languages? I call chapter and verse on that.

I suppose then it is wrong for a woman to teach a man German because the purpose of a seminary offering German is to allow them to read theological German.

Yes, “theology” seems to be the key. The only way that non-egalitarians can now seek to justify their unbiblical position is to interpret 1 Timothy 2:12 as forbidding “theological” teaching.

So while it appears to be acceptable for a woman to witness to a man, it is wrong for a woman to teach theology. Of course, doesn’t witnessing involve some form of theological instruction? If not, how so? If it does involve theology but a different kind, then what is the difference? Really, why is it right for a woman to lead a person to God in Christ through witnessing but wrong for a woman to lead a man in the furthering of his faith in discipleship?

I know: “It just is.”

Even here it is difficult to identify the difference between witnessing and discipleship. I can’t do so. I’m not worried because neither can anyone else.

Is it wrong for a woman to pull a man aside to tell him that he is sinning in some area? I guess not because that involves theology.

What else can a woman not teach a man?

Well, apparently a Christian female biologist can not teach a male biology. The same goes for astronomy and geology. Why?

Well, as the proponents of Intelligent Design so aptly state: the universe was created by God so as to point to the Creator. Therefore, since God is involved, Intelligent Design is a theological discipline. Thus, a woman cannot teach a man Intelligent Design, including biology, zoology, geology, astronomy, physics, chemistry ...

In fact, isn’t it the case that since God created everything that in a sense is theological? Indeed, then is there anything a woman can teach a man?

By the way, I just received my copy of the SWBTS Journal of Theology for summer 2004. Dr. Klouda has an article in it.

Was it wrong for Dr. Klouda to write this article?

Was it wrong for the SWBTS Journal of Theology to publish her article?

Would it be wrong for me to read her article?

I often find similarities between the “women in ministry” debate and the “abortion debate”. How so?

Pro-Choicers have always had a tremendously difficult time debating their point. They cannot withstand even a few questions about their position without having into cease the discussion. Therefore, there are very few abortion debates held. The Pro-Choicers prefer to state, “It’s in the Constitution!” and then force everyone to agree with them. That they never state where it is in the Constitution is telling.

Non-Egalitarians are strikingly similar. They have a tremendously difficult time debating their point. They cannot withstand even a few questions about their position without having into cease the discussion. Therefore, there are very few “women in ministry” debates held. The Pro-Choicers prefer to state, “It’s in the Bible!” and then force everyone to agree with them. That they never state where it is in the Bible is telling.

So here is a final question:

WHY IS IT SO EASY TO REFUTE EVERY SINGLE NON-EGALITARIAN ARGUMENT?

Thursday, December 08, 2005

Many evangelicals unwittingly live as feminists

[I am not really sure what this headline means. What does it mean to “live as feminists” or to do so “unwittingly”? I would prefer if he gave his definition of what he means by “feminism”. Feminism is a broad term that encompasses numerous smaller movements. I suspect that he means feminism that “largely focuses on limiting or eradicating gender inequality and promoting women's rights, interests, and issues in society.” Such is the simplest and most commonly held notion of the term.]

Egalitarians are winning the gender debate because evangelical complementarian men have largely abdicated their biblically ordained roles as head of the home and have, in practice, embraced contemporary pagan feminism, XXXXXX said in a presentation at the 57th annual meeting of the Evangelical Theological Society (ETS) Nov. 17 in Valley Forge, Pa.

[Notice two things: 1) He is suggesting that conservative evangelical men, while advocating the complementarian view, are in fact practicing the egalitarian view. 2) He says that “egalitarians are winning” because men are embracing “contemporary pagan feminism”. From this last point, I do not know if he is suggesting egalitarianism is “pagan feminism” or not. This phrase “pagan feminism” is probably rhetorical exaggeration and not to be taken literally. I doubt that he is saying that evangelical men are worshipping pagan goddesses.]

Complementarianism is the view that men and women have been created equally in God's image but have different yet complementary roles. Egalitarianism is the view that that men and women have been gifted equally so that no role is limited to one sex.

[This is a good and fair definition of egalitarianism on the part of this news site.

Allow me to give some definitions of my own:

Many Christians are egalitarians. They believe that the Bible plainly teaches equality among the sexes and women should therefore have equal access to roles in the church and family. They generally believe that husbands and wives share leadership of their family and that both men and women may serve as senior pastors. That the Scriptures never mention the role of “senior pastor” at all, let alone assigning such a role exclusively to men, is enough reason to disregard the unscriptural notion that such a modern role is forbidden to women.

The recently formulated complementarian view holds that men and women are of equal value but should have different roles in the church and family. Complementarians generally believe that a husband is the proper head of his family and that only men should serve as senior pastors. The roles that women are given is rarely mentioned or advocated. While there are roles that men have that women are prohibited from holding, there are no roles that women have that men are prohibited from holding, albeit biologically unsurpassable roles.

Unsurprisingly, conservatives who hold to the complementarian view believe their view to be the traditional one. Even if it were true that the Scriptures advocate the complementarian view, it is certainly not the case that such a view has been the traditional interpretation and understanding of Scripture by the Church. The Church has traditionally held to the hierarchical view that men should hold positions superior to women in every aspect of society (church, home, business and state).

It has always amazed me that conservatives come to certain opinions about what the Scripture teaches about certain concepts and then try to argue that, despite all evidence to the contrary, such a belief is not just Scriptural but also the traditional view that the Church has held. Examples include: penal substitutionary atonement, pre-tribulation rapture dispensationalism, inerrancy, nouthetic counseling, eternal security, believer’s Baptism, predestination, expository preaching, parachurch organizations and mission boards. I’m not saying any of these beliefs are right or wrong in my estimation. In fact, in my estimation, I believe some of these concepts to be scripturally sound but I would never suggest that any of these are “traditional”.

The Complementarian view is a fairly recent doctrine that developed as the evangelical response for the generally accepted views of the feminist movement but also as a response against the views of feminism that the conservative evangelical church could not generally accept. Thankfully, mainstream evangelical conservatism has generally rejected the hierarchal view of gender roles. However, the evangelical community is still debating the egalitarian view. Conservative evangelicals are now promoting their recently constructed view of gender roles against the egalitarian alternative but suggesting that their view has always been held by the Church. I imagine that in 20 years the sons and daughters of today’s evangelicals will state that their evangelical view of egalitarianism was always held by the Church.]


XXXXX called for a complementarian response built upon a thoroughly biblical vision of male headship in which men lead their families and churches by mirroring God the Father, whom Scripture portrays as the loving, sacrificial, protective Patriarch of His people. XXXXX is dean of the school of theology and senior vice president for academic administration at XXXX Seminary.

[Now, as one who has given some time to the issue of “women and the faith” (which is in of itself a broad phrase of identification) allow me to suggest a 9 concepts (or doctrines, if you prefer) commonly misunderstood by conservative evangelicals that lead to the present discussion about the roles of women in the body of Christ.

1) Headship
2) Submission
3) Pre-Fall vs post-Fall reality (including pre-Advent ethics vs post-Advent ethics)
4) ANE culture vs Christian ethics (including OT ethics vs NT ethics)
5) Practical exemptions of the general Headship rule
6) Pastorship
7) Authority
8) Leadership
9) Church vs Society

Time prevents me from delving too deeply into all of these issues, but I shall mention a few as it relates to the points made in this news report.

First, the doctrine of “headship” (doctrine 1) as taught by Paul in Corinthians, Ephesians and Colossians is NOT ABOUT LEADERSHIP. I cannot stress this enough. No where does Paul teach that “headship” is about “leadership.” Nowhere does Paul teach that “leadership” has to do with “headship”. This has been a perennial and general assumption without Scriptural basis.

“Headship” has to with sanctification. “Headship” is metaphor by which Paul describes the means by which God sanctifies Christ, the Church and the family.

Read the appropriate Pauline passages concerning headship: 1 Corinthians 11:2-16, Ephesians 5:21-32 and gender issues. Also, read these passages in light of 1 Corinthians 7:1-16 and Ephesians 5:26.

Christ is sanctified by God, the Church is sanctified by God through Christ, God sanctifies the family (wife and children) through the husband. HOWEVER, as 1 Corinthians 7:1-16 points out, if the husband is an unbeliever but the wife a believer, the believing wife is the means by which God sanctifies the husband and children. Therefore, although the general rule in terms of headship is the husband, by Gods’ grace, the wife can be “head” if the husband is unbelieving (doctrine 5).

As the complementarians so state, “headship” is not about value or worth but about role. However, unlike what complementarians state, “headship” is not about leadership and, although such a role is generally held by men, in some cases such a role is held by women. Furthermore, the issue of “headship” is unrelated to pastoralship.]


Many complementarians are living according to egalitarian presumptions, and research has shown many conservative and evangelical households to be among the “softest” when it comes to familial harmony, relational happiness and emotional health, XXXX said.

[I do not know what he means by “soft”.]

“Evangelicals maintain headship in the sphere of ideas, but practical decisions are made in most evangelical homes through a process of negotiation, mutual submission, and consensus,” XXXX said. “That’s what our forefathers would have called feminism -- and our foremothers, too.”

[I am not going to comment; I don’t think I need to. You know how I feel.]

Egalitarian views are carrying the day within evangelical churches and homes, XXXX said, because complementarians have not dealt sufficiently with the forces that drive the feminist impulse: Western notions of consumerism and therapy.

[Is he saying that men are leaning to shop like women and that is fueling egalitarianism? The previous line is a joke because I am unable to take this seriously.

Basically he is admitting that egalitarians are winning the current debate over “women in ministry” if not in theory than definitely in practice.]


This therapeutic and consumerist atmosphere has led evangelicals away from a view that sees Scripture as the external, objective standard of truth and has pushed them to look inside themselves to find ultimate truth, XXXX said. Because self and not Scripture is the final authority, evangelical homes and churches hold complementarian views but practice egalitarianism, he said.

[Notice that he is not saying that egalitarians are not “misinterpreting Scripture” but are “denying Scripture.” I think this is one of the main problems with modern evangelical conservatives: they cannot even allow for someone to have a differing opinion on what Scripture is teaching. No, anyone who doesn’t agree with them on what Scripture is teaching is intentionally denying Scripture. To them, people cannot be wrong in their interpretation; no, these people (the egalitarians) are rejecting what they (the egalitarians) believe Scripture is teaching. This current crowd of evangelical conservatives believes that their interpretation of Scripture is THE interpretation of Scripture. Therefore, anyone who disbelieves their interpretation of Scripture is disbelieving Scripture. Our group of the Church has for so long been told and convinced themselves that THEY and THEY ALONE have the proper attitude toward Scripture and ONLY correct hermeneutic for interpreting Scripture that they automatically assume that anyone who holds their attitude is doctrinally sound and whoever does not is heterodox. This is a VERY dangerous mind set. It breeds pride and (I’m sorry to say) heresy. Unfortunately, it explains the last thirty years of American conservative Christianity.

Remember: the leaders of the Roman Catholic Church believe that they had the correct interpretation of Scripture. They believed that theirs was the only interpretation because it was the right interpretation. Luther challenged this.]


“Complementarian churches are just as captive to the consumerist drive of American culture as egalitarians, if not more so,” Moore said.

If evangelical homes and churches are to recover from the confusion of egalitarianism, XXXX said, they must embrace a full-orbed vision of biblical patriarchy that restores the male to his divinely ordained station as head of the home and church.

[Again, I am not going to comment; I don’t think I need to. You know how I feel.]

XXXX pointed out that the word “patriarchy” has developed negative connotations, even among evangelicals, in direct proportion to the rise of so-called “evangelical feminism,” a movement that began in the 1970s. But the historic Christian faith itself is built upon a thoroughly biblical vision of patriarchy, he said.

[Again …]

“Evangelicals should ask why patriarchy seems negative to those of us who serve the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob -- the God and Father of Jesus Christ,” XXXX said.

[We need to be extremely careful to distinguish between ANE cultural practices and universal mandates. And, just because God recognizes a particular ANE custom in the Bible, does not mean that it is God’s will for us.

Example: Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob had slaves. God did not seek to abolish slavery among the Israelites or the early Church. Many of Jesus’ parables used slavery to describe the kingdom of God. However, no one in evangelical life today states that slavery is okay.

‘Evangelicals should ask why slavery seems negative to those of us who serve the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob -- the God and Father of Jesus Christ’.]


“We must remember that ‘evangelical’ is also a negative term in many contexts. We must allow the patriarchs and apostles themselves, not the editors of ‘Playboy’ or ‘Ms. Magazine,’ to define the grammar of our faith.”

[So is “liberal”.

Yes, I’m sure all egalitarian evangelicals and non-practicing complementarians are getting their gender theology from ‘Playboy’ or ‘Ms. Magazine’.]


The model of biblical patriarchy/male headship that evangelicals must rediscover is tied to Scripture’s teaching of the fatherhood of God, XXXX said. The Bible portrays God the Father as existing in covenant relationship with the Son in a way that defines the covenantal standing and inheritance of believers, he said.

[The problem with this reasoning is that “headship” either male or female is not synonymous with “rule”.

I’ve thought he has been a bit short on definitions in this article. This could be just the fault of the news reporters and not his paper. Nevertheless, I think we need a definition of “patriarchy”.

“Patriarchy (from Greek: patria meaning father and arché meaning rule) is the anthropological term used to define the sociological condition where male members of a society tend to predominate in positions of power; with the more powerful the position, the more likely it is that a male will hold that position.”

Here is another definition:

The term "patriarchy' is distinct from patrilineality.

"Patrilineal defines societies where the derivation of inheritance (financial or otherwise) originates from the father's line; a society with matrilineal traits such as Judaism, for example, provides that in order to be considered a Jew, a person must be born of a Jewish mother.”

Again, “headship” is not about “leadership”; it is about “sanctification”.

Furthermore, the existence of a patriarchy in the OT does not exclude the existence of a matriarchy.

First, the Patriarchs, known as the Avot in Hebrew, are Abraham, his son Isaac and his grandson Jacob. Collectively, they are referred to as the three patriarchs (sh'loshet ha-avot) of Judaism.

Second, the Matriarchs, known as the Ima-[h]ot (literally "mothers") in Hebrew, are four important women mentioned in the Book of Genesis of the Hebrew Bible. They are Sarah, wife of Abraham, Rebecca, wife of Isaac, and Leah and Rachel, the wives of Jacob. They are considered to be the ancestral "mothers" of the ancient Children of Israel as well as of the Jewish people.

What are some of the other matriarchs of the Bible? Naomi, Deborah, Miriam, Zipporah, Esther, Bathsheba, Mary, Elizabeth, Priscilla, Phoebe, Hanna, Abigail, Huldah, Noahdiah, Anna, and many other prophetesses. Yes, there are many prophetesses in the Bible, both Old and New Testaments.

Let me ask you some questions:

Are prophetesses only allowed to be prophets for women? No, God speaks to men through prophetesses throughout the Scriptures.

Do prophets in the Bible have authority? Yes.

Do prophetesses in the Bible have authority? Yes.

Do prophets in the Bible have authority over men and women? Yes.

Do prophetesses in the Bible have authority over men and women? Yes.

Therefore, do not women in some instances have authority over men? Yes.

The problem that modern Christians (both conservative and liberal) have with authority as it is taught in the Bible is that they assume that when a person (either male or female) has authority that it is that person’s authority … and its not! A person who has authority in the Bible has it not because they are powerful or wealthy or wise or old or male or female. A person has authority because of God. God gives them that authority and such authority is not that person’s and is only authoritative when the person uses it as God wills. A pastor does not have the authority to make me sin. If a pastor sins, a child has the authority to tell a pastor that he is sinning and should repent because it is not the child that is the source of this authority but God. Therefore, a woman can tell a sinning man to repent not because she has authority over him but because God has authority and is speaking through the woman. Prophetesses do this throughout the Bible; are they sinning because of 1 Timothy 2:12?

But I see from this paragraph another fallacy inherent in his thinking and, to be much more broad and general, a flaw in conservative hermeneutics:

Just because the Bible uses a cultural practice metaphor to describe something good or truthful in the Bible does not mean that the cultural practice is good. Again, Jesus uses slavery as a metaphor to describe the kingdom and the relationship between God and Man. This does not mean that God approves of slavery. Why is slavery wrong then? Well, because all people are created in God’s image and have equal worth, therefore slavery is against God’s Will. But we do make an exception with gender differences don’t we.]


The fatherhood of God is central to the Gospel and male headship, and, when practiced biblically, offers a living picture of the redemption believers have in Christ, XXXX said.

[Again, so does slavery.]

“Even the so-called ‘egalitarian proof-texts’ not only fail to demonstrate an evangelical feminist argument, [but] they actually prove the opposite,” he said. “Galatians 3:28, for example, is all about patriarchy -- a Father who provides his firstborn son with a cosmic inheritance, an inheritance that is shared by all who find their identity in Christ, Jew or Greek, male or female, slave or free.

[Does a Jew have headship over a Greek? Does a freeman have headship over a slave?

First, the inheritance analogy is an analogy.

Second, the analogy is in fact teaching that because Christ has this inheritance we as Christians (regardless of sexual, ethnic, or economic differences) are equal in Christ, thereby reversing the curse of the fall.

Third, there are MANY other prooftexts for the egalitarian view.

Fourth, it somewhat irks me to see conservative scholars arguing their POV by saying that the opposing view will lead to a denial of God. Yet, I see it all the time.


“This understanding of archetypal patriarchy is grounded, then, in the overarching theme of all of Scripture -- the summing up of all things in Christ [in Ephesians 1:10]. It does not divide God’s purposes, His role as Father from His role as Creator from His role as Savior from His role as King.

“To the contrary, the patriarchal structures that exist in the creation order point to His headship -- a headship that is oriented toward redemption in Christ [in Hebrews 12:5-11].”

[Okay, the institution of slavery points to man as slaves to Christ and to God. Christ considered himself as a slave to God. Therefore, slavery is okay.]

An embrace of biblical patriarchy also protects the doctrine of God from aberrations such as the impersonal deity of Protestant liberalism and the unstable “most moved mover” of open theism, he said.

[I do understand this argument, but one could just as easily suggest that a patriarchal view of the faith leads to the abuse as women which, by the way, it doesn’t.]

A rejection of male headship leads to a redefinition of divine Fatherhood and divine sovereignty, XXXX said. He pointed to open theism (a view that argues God’s knowledge of the future is limited) as an example of the dangers of rejecting biblical patriarchy. Open theism is built upon a denial of the Scripture’s portrayal of God as the sovereign Head of His creation, he said.

[Again, I do not think the problem is that there is a rejection of male headship among egalitarians. Rather, I think the problem is that evangelical conservatives are 1) misunderstanding the meaning, point, and particulars of “headship” and are 2) attempting to redefine the traditional conservative interpretation of gender roles in light of recent interpretive revelations. This redefinition allows them a) to remain somewhat relevant in modern society and b) to fight further encroachment by progressives on this issue by dismissing egalitarian views as unscriptural and by proclaiming that the complementarian view has always been the correct interpretation.]

“Open theism is not more dangerous than evangelical feminism, or even all that different,” XXXX said. “It is only the end result of a doctrine of God shorn of patriarchy.”

[I have been aware of this Trinitarian argument for female subordination a few years now. It seems to be based on Genesis 1:27:

“So God created man in his [own] image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.”

And 1 Corinthians 11:3:

“But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God.”

Now I am not well versed in this study so please do not take this portion of my comments as “gospel”. I am a novice on this particular issue.

But the benefit of this argument is that it explains how it is possible for two “entities” can be both equal and subordinate.

The drawback of this argument is that it is not made in Scripture and is never even hinted at by the prophets and apostles.]


XXXX pointed out that a growing trend exists within evangelicalism in which “soft” complementarians seek to indict other complementarians for not writing frequently against spousal abuse. This charge is a red herring, XXXX said, because complementarians address the issue consistently.

[Yes, he is right; this is a red herring.]

This charge itself, however, reveals a tacit acceptance by evangelicals of a false egalitarian charge that says male headship leads to abuse, he said. Instead, XXXX said, a biblical view of male headship and gender roles actually protect against spousal and child abuse because it does not posit male privilege, but instead demands male responsibility.

[I do agree that complementarianism doesn’t lead to abuse. He is correct in this assertion. However, concept number 4): ANE culture vs Christian ethics (including OT ethics vs NT ethics). I do believe that one of the most difficult concepts for many conservatives to grasp is the notion that not all of the cultural concepts practiced in the Bible are God’s will for Christians. Furthermore, there are some Ancient Near Eastern cultural practices in the OT that God required believers to adhere to (sometimes even at the threat of death) that are completely immoral for today’s Christians and which God forbids us to practice. Yes, some morality is relative. The rub is trying to ascertain what God wills for us today.

Women must have long hair and not short hair. Women should not have braided hair. Why do we not practice the Biblical view of slavery? Why do we not practice the Biblical view of war? Why do we not practice the Biblical view of levirate marriage? Why do we not practice the Biblical view of polygamy? Why do we not practice the Biblical view of punishment for adultery, sodomy, and blasphemy? Why do we not practice the Biblical view of Jubilee?]


“Ironically, a more patriarchal complementarianism will resonate among a generation seeking stability in a family-fractured Western culture in ways that soft-bellied big-tent complementarianism never can,” XXXX said.

[I’m sorry. But “soft-bellied big-tent complementarianism”? He is not speaking about egalitarians here. He is speaking about people who agree with him but are not as forceful in their beliefs as he.]

“And it will also address the needs of hurting women and children far better, because it is rooted in the primary biblical means for protecting women and children: calling men to responsibility. Patriarchy is good for women, good for children, and good for families.”

[But it is just not Scriptural.]

Friday, June 24, 2005

The Ordination of Women

Back by popular demand ... my Systematic Theology paper on the Ordination of Women.